How To Kiss, Kissing tips, techniques and more

How to Kiss

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1. Set the scene. Make sure that the mood and time are right. Relax, take a deep breath and let go of any tension you might have. This will help a lot when your are French-kissing.

2. Dampen your lips. Dry lips do not move well together, but you do not want them to be dripping wet either. Just a light brush of your tongue over your lips will be enough to moisten them. It is always useful to have lip moisturizing when your are french-kissing

3. Head Position. If your mouths meet dead-on, your noses will get in the way, kind of awkward, and you will not be able to french-kiss smoothly or deeply for that matter. To avoid this, tilt your head slightly to one side, usually to the left. Make sure you do not both tilt your heads to the same side.

4. Close your eyes. Although this usually happens by instinct it is always best to keep it in mind. As you approach for the kiss, look into your partner's eyes, once you are close to your lovers face, close your eyes. It can be a bit of awkward and not to mention a turnoff to be french-kissing with your eyes opened, although some people prefer it that way. In any case ask your lover.

5. Start with a gentle and soft closed-mouth kiss. The French kiss is an open-mouth kiss, but do not dive in open-mouthed like you're going to eat them; instead, open your lips very slowly as you kiss your lover. Remember it is better to start a kiss with closed lips, not to mention classy.

6. Practice. French-kissing takes practice, but hey I would not mind practicing French-kissing all day.

Kissing Games 2

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Do What You Want Kiss

This is always fun. One of you just lies there, and the other does whatever he or she wants to give pleasure. Then, you switch roles. See who can give the most satisfying kiss, with the other not participating at all.

Pepper Kiss

Take a hot pepper and roll it on your lips then kiss your partner. It give the kiss a kick. (Note use peppers as hot as you or your partner can take, but not too hot or it will just burn and ruin the kiss.)

Lip Venom

Before you go to kiss your partner, apply lip venom to your lips when he isn't looking. Lip venom is a safe cosmetic item that you can buy at Scarlets and other cosmetic stores and what it does is it draws the blood to your lips, making them red and tingly. A little bit goes a very long way and can still be passed up until probably about a half an hour after applying. When your partner kisses you, he will have this sensual feeling running through his lips for the rest of the day

Lollipop Kiss

Take your partner and gently pull her close to you. Lick her bottom lip, and proceed to french kiss her. Then when she needs to take a breath, cause most girls and guys need a break anyways, grab her tongue ever so gently with your lips and run them over it.

Marco Polo Kiss

First one of you need to figure out who's marco and who's polo. Then you play the game like marco and polo. Except instead of just touching them, you have to embrace them in your arms and kiss him/her. It's great fun.

Dive Gear Kiss

While diving in a pool, one person wears a diving mask and the other person has to close their eyes and hold on to the mask-wearing person really close. Then trade the inhaling part of the dive gear. Take a deep breath and take the inhaler part away. Kiss the person wherever or however you like, then switch places. This should only be done with some one you truly trust would not hurt you.

Steam Kiss

You or your partner drink a very hot drink while the other drinks a very icy cold one and see if there's some steam. It's fun because if it doesn't work, just keep trying!

Who Lasts Longer Kiss

Sit very close to each other, your lips almost touching, arms where you please. Sit like this, very close, and see who can go the longest without kissing the other. It's great fun, because you can lose on purpose and still win!

Kissing Games 1

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Marathon Kissing

See how long you can kiss for (try 5 - 10 minutes straight)

Candy Kiss

Use either a Jolly Rancher or some type of hard candy/mint. Either you or your partner place the candy in your/their mouth and then it is like a game of keep away. Whoever starts tries to keep the candy in their mouth while the other person tries to get it in theirs. But you can only use your tongue and lips. This can be very fun if you have the right partner!!! Enjoy.

The Tickle Kiss

In this kiss you make use of the fact that the roof of the mouth is the most ticklish part of the body. Begin a normal French kiss and (be sure your partner understands the game) stroke your tongue across the roof of each other's mouth. This will create almost unbearable chills down your spine and the winner is the person who can stand them because the loser pulls away. The best part about this kiss is that it is different every time and always fun.

Name Kiss

If u have run out of things to do with your tongue spell your name. This works very well and everyone likes
it!

Tongue Wars

Each person tries to get their tongue in the other persons mouth while they try to get their tongue in your mouth. Each person "blocks" the other persons tongue with theirs. The winner gets to pick the next type of kiss. This game is great for reliving first make-out tension.

Starburst Trick

Out a starburst in your mouth, and while French kissing try to unwrap it! Enjoy!

Ring Kiss

What you do is take a ring off your finger and put it on your tongue. Then while you and your partner are French kissing, he tries to slip it on the tip of his tongue! It is a lot of fun!

Tongue Tease

When you're French kissing, if/when you pull back, and before your mouths meet again, you can flick your tongue up and down quickly against the other person who is doing the same. It's very teasing and fun to see how long it lasts. Its hard to resist going strong after a while of flicking.

The Basics

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There are so many different ways to kiss. The two main basic ones are close-mouthed kissing and French kissing. French kissing involves an open mouth and with tongue, while close-mouthed kissing is pretty self-explanatory. We thought it would be easier for first-time kissers if they knew at least the kissing basics before they try to approach other kisses, such as French kissing.

Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath. If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.

Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.

Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly to one side. If you don't, don't worry about it. Your partner will still tilt their head slightly so your lips meet on a slight angle or they will kiss you straight on. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.

Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes. Kissing with your eyes open, looking into one another's eyes while you kiss, can be very erotic and some people find it quite enjoyable. You may want to try kissing this way once you're more comfortable kissing your partner.

Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.

Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.

Hands - There are many ways you can use your hands during a kiss. The most popular way is to put one hand on your partner's waist and the other one against the middle of their back. Other ways to use your hands are to cup your partner's face in your hands (very romantic!), put them around your partner's neck, put them around their waist, hold your partner's upper or lower arms gently, run your finger's through their hair, or just hold their hands in yours.

And there you have it, the basics of kissing! When you try to put them all together in your mind it makes it seem like kissing is very difficult. But when you actually apply them in real life it's quite easy. Kissing is a natural response to show affection for someone and if done with someone you really care about it will feel totally natural.

First Kiss Stories 2

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My fist kiss was so amazing . Let me tell you the story!This all happened 3 and u half monthes ago. Me and my boyfriend meet at a privet school.So one day i was in the classroom with my class mats and he was trying to patches things up with umatimus but when he came to the classrooom he saw me there very sad and let me tell you why. I was not felling good and yes we were friends before this and i was drinking somwthing for my stomack problem and he sat next to me and he told me to hang in there and that i was going to be okey!so the mounths went on and just this passed january he came over for the new years day and he came over to my house and we tlaked foe a while and w talked to him mom talking to my mom!Well thing got more interisting ater him mom left and the rest of my family was out side so me and sean went to now my favertie room in the hosue my did white sofa! We sniggled and cudles and he kiss me on the forehead and i just go muts aver it ! Then the intersting part comes. I told him i want to talk to him and the next thing you know we were making out on the couch him on top of em and to this day we are still together and still going strong! He bought me a blue topaze ring from zalez and i bought him a crarf for christmas! We see each outher on mondays when we dont have school!My boyfriend is 16 years old! - anonymous, 17

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Hi. my name is Nataly. im 14 yrs. old. my first kiss was on December 15 @ like 12:30 in the morning. But anyway...I like my BFF's godbrother and he said he liked me too. We had liked each other since mid june so we had spent alot of time getting to know each other. But I was in the store Christmas shopping w/ my momma and auntie when my bff called me and asked if I wanted to stay the night. So I said sure. I called her back before I was going to leave and she was like ohh yea...I forgot to tell you that my god bro is staying the night. mann I was pretty excited. so I got there and her mom was gone to pick him up. but any way when he got there we all just hung out and talked. And then my bff said that she had to go to bed because she had a soccer game the next day. so I said yea I probably need to get to sleep too but I couldnt fall asleep. then finally like 20 minutes later her god bro came in. he started talking to me. then he managed to lay himself in my arms. and we talked for a few more minutes. then he move closer and closer and finally i could feel his eyelashes move when he blinked because he was sooo close. but i didnt want him to move. then he took my arm and put it around his neck. he had his arms around me. he started tickiling me. i turned away slightly. why do you do that to me I asked?? he whispered simply...because I can. and then bamm he kissed me. I was just kinda laying there because he caught me off guard. then he backed away slowly. and then he came forward again and he frenched me. it was sooo amazing. he had one arm around me and the other hand running through my hair. wowseres!!!! it was amazing. he backed away and the came forward once more. then we finally decided that it was time to go to sleep. so he leaned in once more and kissed me. and then he hugged me. I kissed him on the cheek and he went to sleep in the living room. my first kiss is somthing that I will remember forever. and a lil bit of advice to those first timers....dont be nervous....just do what feels right. it will all come natural. - Nataly, 14

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My first unforgettable kiss was when i was at my boyfriend's home. He was going on vacation and i went to his home to meet him. Nobody was at his home. That day he was showing soooo much love that i couldn't stop him. He kissed me sooo passionately, tenderly and lovingly. My first kiss was one of the best moment of my life. I love u ,M . I thank God that i have u. - Ruby, 18

Hi, I'm now 15 years old. I got my first kiss when I was 13. I was at my friends 4th of July party at her barn. My parents were gone and there were a bunch of people and kids. There was this guy (lets say his name was josh) he was my friends brothers friend. I personally thought he was pretty cute and funny. So after it got dark the adults started setting off the fireworks and a bunch of the older kids 12-16 went swimming. He was 15 years old and a freshman in high school. While we were in the pool he came up behind me and put his arms around my waist. This scared me a little and I immediately turned around, and said "Not now." Then Josh said "maybe more later". His sister had already told me that he liked me (we had hit it off right from the start). About 15 mins. later he grabbed my hand and said follow me, I want to talk to you. We got out of the pool and went behind some trees to this swing set. It was perfect. Under the fireworks, him pushing (not hard) me up against a post. Then about 30-45 mins later I returned to the pool and told my best friends all about it. Yes, it was very awkward yet very enjoyable. - anonymous, 15, TN

Like a few people on this site, I met this Suz at summer camp. We were in the same group type thing and we hit it off straight away. And at the end of the week I realized that I would probably never see her again if I didn't do something about it so I asked her out on the last day. I got her number and all that jazz. Because she was going on holiday to France in two days we went to see a film, nothing much happened there but when she got back from France she had really missed me and I the same so we went ice skating the next day. We both had a great time and she had been hinting all day that she wanted me to kiss her. When she almost had to go I just gave her a quick kiss. Then we went some where a bit more private and made out till her mum called saying she was outside. We are still together. - CJ - Male, 14, England

I was and still am twelve and my very first kiss (and best kiss) was from a guy named James. He's really cute! Lol I will get to the point. So, he invited like 30 people to his house for a Valentine's day party. Well he let all of us into his home theatre (he's loaded too!) and him and me had like barely met ever be4, but we sat next to each other during the movie, which was "What a Girl Wants." We talked throughout the entire movie about ourselves, despite angry glares from the people watching the movie in the rows above... Well towards the end of the movie, he leaned over to kiss me, but I said "No, wait." I couldn't handle it right then and there, even though I had just met him... Anyway, so after the movie, we were back in the playroom area of his house ( which is huge), where he installed a disco ball sorta thing and all of us slow danced. On my invitation, he had written me to stay half an hour after the song ended. We danced to the rest of the CD, like "Follow You, Follow Me" and "Forever"... So at the end of the scene, he admitted he had his eye on me for a long time, then he put in the last cd with the song "Photograph" on it, then he shut off the lights. We danced alone and in the dark, and finally, his lips touched mine, and they were so smooth, it was like the perfect date. We read each others minds and went from lip to open mouth kissing in a matter of seconds... and I want to keep the rest of that night private with him. Anyway, we are still together and I still love him to death! - Amber, 12, New Jersey, USA

I was 11 (now being 12) i had been going out with this guy who i barely even knew and after we dated for like a week we snuck off to the mal and we were hanging out and his little friend said "can i tell her??" he said "yeah go ahead" he looked at me and said "leighton was wondering if you would kiss him" my face hurt i smiled so big and i sounded like an idiot saying "Ive never been kissed before" and "im kinda nervous" my mouth went dry and i had shivers up my spine then before he had to leave we walked around the mall and his friend kept telling us to do it putting me on the spot so i agreed i fixed my hair and licked my lips and thanked god i'd brushed my teeth then he pulled me behind a large block of cement and his friend kept peaking around the corner and i was so happy/nervous because i had waited for this moment then we let his friend watch then he grabbed me by the top of my arms and planted a kiss upon my li[s i kept my eyes open and stayed stiff as a board as he hugged me afterwards i was thinking "its really happened ive been kisssed!!!!" he walked me home and i hugged him afterwards that was the night he told me he loved me we have sadly broken up but i still love him. - Gabrielle, 12, Oregon, usa

First Kiss Stories 1

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My first kiss was this fall, and one of my good guy friends was having a bonfire. Well, me and a few of my girlfriends and some guys that lived in our neighborhood snuck off to play truth of dare. of course, it turned into a game of just having to kiss whoever wanted a dare. My friend Malcolm was dared to kiss me on the lips, so I'm like, sure, whatever. So, he puts his arms around my shoulders and kisses me. His lips were soo soft except EWWWWWW! they were like covered in spit so that totally wrecked it. i know this doesn't count, because it was a dare. A couple months later he asked me out, and we went out for 2 weeks, and then he broke up with me. Still, i'll always remember that. . and how he's such a bad kisser! LOL. - Anonymous, 13 years old, IL

Kay, so my boyfriend and i had been going out for a little over a month and i had been soooo nervous about our first kiss considering it was my first kiss and i knew it wasn't his. He was getting a bit discouraged seeing as every time he tried to kiss me i would turn away. We were texting one night and i gathered enough courage to talk about it. He got excited and said he couldn't wait. The next morning at school as soon as we saw each other he ran up to me and gave me a peck. i didn't even expect it so i turned around and started talking to someone else then the bell rang and we had to go to class. He kissed me two more times that day but very briefly, one was a peck and the other he kinda ate my face so i pulled away. haha. thankfully we've had a lot more practice since then and we've been going out for FOUR months now!!! I love him like no other <3 - Anonymous, 14

my first kiss was a little under a year ago when i was 14. i was at the 8th grade dance and i wasn't going with anybody but my friends but despite that i was going to look good. anyway, my favorite song came on and i had to sit on the side with others (its a slow dance song and dj's rules were couples only). i was hoping my crush would ask me out b4 the dance but he didn't so i just sorta gave up. until he walked up to me in the middle of the song and tapped me on the shoulder and asked to have the dance. when we stepped out i felt like the most beautiful girl in the world. so after the song ended, he whispered in my ear that he wanted to show me something so i followed him outside and he was showing me the stars and stuff. we were sitting on this bench and we decided to share his jacket cuz it was getting chilly which meant we were close. then he said, "i've been meaning to uh tell you something."
I said "what?" then he turned and took my head in his hands and leaned in and kiss me perfectly. then he said, "i like you. a lot. girlfriend?"
"definitely" was all i could say before kissing him again. best night of my life which i am lucky enough to still share with him. I LOVE YOU MATT! - anonymous, 14, il

I was 12 years old on my first kiss. It was at my best friends house, her brother had his friend over, then both of them left both of us alone. we both had a crush on each other, then we both got up then he started walking up to me. So I took one step back, and I hit the bed that was behind me (it was standing up on its side) then he grabbed my waist, (he had to look down because he was like 5 inches taller than me) then he tilted his head, so I put my arms around his neck, we both closed our eyes, then, BAM, we kissed, he used a little bit of tongue, then we both turned it into a french (i know usually you not supposed to french on a first kiss) . even though it was my first kiss he said i was a really good kisser. but we didn't end up as gf and bf because my best friends brother caught us. we are just friends now but he still gives me this look were he want to kiss me again. - anonymous

My first kiss was with my best friend ( i' ll call him Kevin) he was sweet and gorgeous and just his smile made my day. We d been friends since third grade but something about him this year caught my eye and i became a fiend over him. I told him about my feelings for him and he said that he just wanted to be friends and i accepted that. then one day after school he looked me dead in the eye and told me he loved me and that he lied about how he felt and then he kissed me. And it was the sweetest deepest kiss i ever felt. I felt it all the way in bones. Well anyway we ve been together for 5 years and yesterday he proposed - Espi, 18, Espana

Types of kisses 4

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Flavor Kissing

Put a piece of long lasting gum in your mouth (Hubba Bubba, Trident) just before you and your partner French kiss. While kissing pass the gum back and forth, and see how long it takes for the flavor to run out!

Chew Kiss

Tell your partner to place their tongue deeply into mouth deeply... you VERY GENTLY "chew" on the back part of their tongue... do not suck. This will create a sensation in other places that can be very exciting!

Touch Kiss

You do this after you and your partner have Frenched or really kissed alot. What you do is just simply touch tongues - like the tip of your tongue. You may want to move it around but you don't have to. You don't do it inside your mouth you do it out in the open.

Muzzle Kiss

When kissing the neck of your partner, at one point blow air out of your mouth while pressing the lips down, creating the sound of some sort of... flatulence.! It should be ever so unexpected and quite interesting indeed.

Trade-off Kiss

One of you gets a cinnamon candy and the other a mint. One takes the cinnamon and the other the mint. While French kissing, switch them from time to time. Great fun.

Tongue Ring Kiss

What you do is, if your partner has a tongue ring and the two of you are French kissing, mess with his/her tongue ring while kissing and it gives your partner chills and excitement/happiness because a lot of people with tongue rings love that. Or if the two of you have a tongue ring have a tongue ring WAR! What you do is keep his/her tongue away from your tongue ring, while you're messing with their tongue ring. (NOTE: don't Tangle tongue rings together because that will be a disaster!)

Types of kisses 3

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Glow Stick Frenzy

Pass the mini mouth glow stick back and forth (same thing as melt kissing).

Tongue Sucking

When you have the chance to get really deep into your partners mouth, suck on their tongue as far as you can. Don't suck to hard, you don't want to hurt your partner. Otherwise it's very pleasing!

Sigh Kiss

When you first start kissing your partner gently lick their lips with the tip of your tongue. Then blow or sigh into their lips, causing a tingling feeling that will intensify your kiss for sure.

Pop Kiss

Use pop-rocks, great fun. You've heard of fireworks, this is an explosion!

Tongue Tease

When you're French kissing, if/when you pull back, and before your mouths meet again, you can flick your tongue up and down quickly against the other person who is doing the same. It's very teasing and fun to see how long it lasts. Its hard to resist going strong after a while of flicking.

Underwater Kiss

Have your partner hold their breath underwater and when he or she taps you give them air.

Moving Kiss

Make sure a bed or couch or chair is behind your partner and when French kissing gently push your partner onto the chair or whatever is behind them. Very good for serious couples or just beginners.

Types of kisses 2

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Spitzer Kiss

What you do is when you are ready to kiss (or even while you're Frenching or doing any other kiss) is gently nibble and/or lick the parts just above or below your partner's lip. Now don't slobber all over your partner. Just give enough saliva to get them damp. This is very fun and romantic. It will also turn your partner on or in other words make them like the kiss more.

Lap Kiss

While your partner is laying with his/her head in your lap, lean over and kiss her/him. Your bottom lip will be on your partner's top lip, and vise versa. You can even French kiss while in this position. This kiss is a playful kiss, and it can lead to much more.

Carmex Kiss

If either you or your partner are not carmex junkies, apply a little carmex to your lips and feel the gentle tingle on your lips.

Breath Kiss

In a hot moment - creates major anticipation - barely touch lips with lips slightly parted... then breath your partner's breath... moving heads slowly to experience different sensations... lips touching on and off slightly... it is a very teasing sort of kiss and builds passion tremendously.

Cordial Kissing

Take a sip of your favorite drink, either alcohol or something sweet, and then when your lips meet pour the drink in your partner's mouth. Only take a very small sip.

Butterfly Kissing

Put your eye really close to your partner's cheek and flutter your lashes upon their skin. You can also do this on their lips.

Melt Kissing

Pass an ice cube back and forth in mouth while French kissing.

Types of kisses 1

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Chocolate Kiss

Best done with a Mars Bar because there is caramel in that too! Jus take a bite and French kiss as you would. Very silky smooth type of kiss, and can end up very messy.
Extremely pleasurable, and even more funny! Perfect for a first date just after a first kiss, or something to do that's a little bit different. A must for anyone, best style of kissing ever!

Spiderman Kiss

It's just like in the movie. You kiss upside down, taking in both of your lower lips and do all those other kisses listed above.

Chin Kiss

Hold your partner's chin with your middle, index, and thumb and tilt their head in the right direction. Continue to hold it as you kiss.

Suck Kissing

This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.

Nip Kissing

This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your partner. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.

Surprise Kissing

This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.

Vacuum Kissing

This is a playful kiss. While in an open-mouthed kiss, suck in deeply so you're sucking the air from your partner.

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